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#1688161 - 09/08/17 01:45 AM CFNM Parties at Club Decadence = Who's Attended?
roymunson Offline
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These parties look amazing....totally wild where anything goes...who has been.

https://fetlife.com/users/5435914

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#1688190 - 09/08/17 03:48 PM Re: CFNM Parties at Club Decadence = Who's Attended? [Re: roymunson]
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I went to one. It was ok. A Saturday night. maybe 15 people there, similar crew to paddles. My Mistress had to have a few words with one of the ladies in charge who was very nasty and tried to push my Goddess from behind off of a piece of equipment she wanted to use. My Goddess turned around, stood all the way up and towered over this smaller Mistress. She then quietly cut her down and put her in her place with a few intelligent words. THAT was great to see, let me tell you !!!

So, all in all it wasn't what I expected which was Dommes holding their guys on leashes and like a superior/inferior atmosphere. There wan't really any atmosphere, but it was laid back and some people were very nice. We met a few cool people.

mike

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#1688194 - 09/08/17 05:12 PM Re: CFNM Parties at Club Decadence = Who's Attended? [Re: submike1212]
roymunson Offline
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After doing some research, some of the dommes are not so pleasant to look at...a couple could be...hard to tell. Where there any attractive dommes there?

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#1688204 - 09/08/17 08:58 PM Re: CFNM Parties at Club Decadence = Who's Attended? [Re: roymunson]
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I am very particular about looks. On the Fetlife page, there are pictures of Mistress Sadie and she looks awesome! But I don't know how the others look. As long as someone like Mistress Sadie is in charge, I can live with serving others who are less attractive on the side. But at least the main lady must be smoking hot.

I might give this event a try but not sure. And it doesn't sound like it's as professional as they make it sound like in their description. And only 15 people on a Saturday? Hmmm. They charge quite a bit for just that.

Not sure, maybe.

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#1688230 - 09/09/17 03:04 AM Re: CFNM Parties at Club Decadence = Who's Attended? [Re: Sam Serf]
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Then this is not for you. This is not a pro domme session. You should stick to those, since you get to choose your domme, by looks or any other measure. A pro domme will also do what you want done.

This party attracts mostly lifestyle women, of all shapes, sizes, and ages, and they tend to do what THEY want to do. They aren't paid to service the subs, so an introduction must occur, and a discussion over mutual likes and dislikes, interests, etc, ensues to see if you're a match. You have to hope the woman you fancy wants to a) play, b) play with you, and c) in a way you want to play. Skill levels vary.

It isn't cheap either, but it does last 4-5 hours. Males must be naked, unless in sissy attire. You will be in a room with naked males, and clothed women -- this should should be obvious.

They run a well-run event, with little tolerance for bs or attitude. If you want to watch, fine -- if you want to play, then behave, follow the rules, be polite in your approach and discussions with the ladies, and be open to different women. If you can't do that, please don't come. These parties depend on attracting lifestyle women, who play for fun, and some are newbie, and a bad experience with an asshole entitled male can sour them, and ruin the fun for everyone.

The Tuesday parties are by far better attended than the Saturday parties.

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#1688327 - 09/10/17 05:04 PM Re: CFNM Parties at Club Decadence = Who's Attended? [Re: Sam Serf]
submike1212 Offline
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No great looking ladies. It is expensive but like someone said, it is well run and u can have some fun. There were a lot of chubby men sitting around naked as you might expect.

mike

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#1688462 - 09/13/17 07:58 PM Did anyone attend the September 12 event? [Re: roymunson]
Karl Online   content
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I'm curious about submike 1212's report on an earlier party: "There were a lot of chubby men sitting around naked as you might expect."

Speaking as a chubby man, I'm not interested in paying to watch a handful of women ignore me. I get plenty of that for free.

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#1688470 - 09/14/17 02:01 AM Re: Did anyone attend the September 12 event? [Re: Karl]
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The dommes are there to play. It is a play party, with the emphasis on play. If you go, you will see nothing but people meeting and playing.

If you want to play, and can muster the ability to say hello and discuss mutual interests, you'll get play, but if you want to watch and observe, then you can do that too. Some guys just want to do that. Other guys want to play, and that happens. But the women are not there to service you, they are there to play. The hostesses do an excellent job of circling and making introductions and helping play get going. But it's not a session, it's a party. Effort to meet people is required on your part.

I've never seen someone go in with a good attitude and not come away thrilled. And it's possible to get more play than you ever could have imagined, and body type has little to do with it, but attitude a lot.

Also the comment about no beautiful women there was dead wrong, though Tuesday nights might be better than Saturdays, idk.

But, again, it's not a cater-to-you paid session with the woman of your choice. This is a party -- and a great one.

But why listen to my opinion or anyone else's? Give it a try yourself and see what YOU think.



Edited by DownLow (09/14/17 12:06 PM)

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#1688472 - 09/14/17 03:36 AM CMnf? [Re: DownLow]
NYpainslut Offline
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Registered: 10/21/03
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Loc: Hudson Valley, NY
ever have the alternative fetish?

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#1688478 - 09/14/17 06:40 AM Re: Did anyone attend the September 12 event? [Re: Karl]
submike1212 Offline
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Hey Karl,
No, u can definitely get their attention. The ladies were all friendly and had good attitudes. That is the hosts (except that nasty one I mentioned) and the other ladies who attended. IMO its too expensive. Other guys must feel the same way because I got an email that said they did not have enough guys so they were lowering the entry fee by 20 bucks. Thats still leaves it over $100 to get in as a single guy. Price is cheaper if u go with a lady. Its worth a try once to see what u think. Wasn't trying to trash the party. There were a couple a younger cute guys too doing a little more playing than the single ones sitting around. I got the feeling they were regulars becuz they seemed to know a few people.

mike

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