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#1694281 - 11/30/17 07:00 PM Session Length
midlet2013 Offline

Registered: 04/14/13
Posts: 33

I am travelling soon and wish to see a Mistress who I really like. I have seen her before as well. Since I only see her once in a blue moon, I wanted to see if I can do a longer session or see her twice in a couple of days.

However I have never sessioned more than 1.5 hr at a time and I do this rarely.

What happens in a longer session , say 3-4 hrs. Does it involve breaks or is it too much ?

I want to experience more without overwhelming myself and dissapointed her.

#1694319 - 12/01/17 05:03 PM Re: Session Length [Re: midlet2013]
Slv4u66 Offline

Registered: 03/26/17
Posts: 27
Loc: Germany
I startet with 1 hour sessions and then went to 1.5h as it takes some time for me reaching subspace. Now, I do 2 h to 3 h sessions - less frequent, of course.
There were allways some breaks included - as extra time. So lately, as I was having a 2.5h session, I was left alone for at least 1.5 ( several breaks ).
I only pay for time being treatet, not for enjoying my bondage in silence when my mistress is checking her email, eats something or whatever...
But this depends IMHO from the mistress / house, as at other dungeons, you are extra charged for time being left alone ( especially in latexsessions - not my cup of tea )
Life's to short to drink cheap wine

#1694476 - 12/04/17 05:44 PM Re: Session Length [Re: midlet2013]
DownLow Offline

Registered: 07/10/04
Posts: 2985
Loc: New York, NY
I would say to discuss it with the Domme during the initial emailing phase. Say that you're thinking of doing a multi-hour session and ask whether she has experience with that and what about breaks and downtime and whatever else is on your mind. The email time, during the set up and exploration, is a good time to raise questions. Every domme may do it differently, so, respectfully, ask her, not us.

#1694715 - 12/08/17 06:19 AM Re: Session Length [Re: midlet2013]
Princess Fawn Offline

Registered: 02/15/15
Posts: 48
Loc: CA
I prefer 1 hour for first timers and then if we have good chemistry and click, 1.5-2 hours is ideal per meeting. That is all time spent playing or interacting in some way. Maybe a few minutes on either end for chit chat. I only ignore subs if we plan out an abandonment/caging scenario, which I enjoy a lot but is not a typical request. 3-4 hours would be a lot for a session personally, but again depends on the activity - foot worship and dinner/drinks is different from intense play like smothering/cbt/heavy corporal, which IMO are not activities that can be performed without taking regular short breaks.

#1694716 - 12/08/17 07:01 AM Re: Session Length [Re: midlet2013]
chloe Offline

Registered: 02/18/02
Posts: 9563
Loc: New York City

Ask your Domme what she that you either want to try a longer session (3/4 hours), or to try 2 sessions in a couple of days. There are so many possibilities (chastity between sessions, for example- so much fun!), but without knowing your interests, it would be impossible for us MFers to make suggestions.

Let your Domme lead the really want to go with what she prefers in this case.

Best of luck!

~Mistress Chloe

#1694910 - 12/10/17 08:06 PM Re: Session Length [Re: midlet2013]
HEBR Offline

Registered: 06/27/17
Posts: 13
Longest I have ever done is 5 hours. I was fed a nutra bar (in a dog bowl) and water (in a dog dish).

It was an awesome experience. If being tortured is your thing, I think a longer session contributes to that environment.


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